I guess being brought
up by a woman as a man is the most challenging part of life, when you have
something to cry about that need a masculine intervention it’s not easy to keep
on moving because now a man would feel that the mother won’t tackle the problem
as a man would. The silence in a man’s heart makes him learn how to be a man on
his own with no coach from male side and the mistakes he does become distinctive
than someone who had both coaches (parents). Most men raised by women they are
too emotional meaning they can relate to pain easily but can still maintain
their strength through their entire ordeal because they feel like no one can come
to the rescue but themselves. This kind of thinking makes such a man live his
life twice trying to catch up with teenagehood and learning how a man should
think, behave and do. The support they get from their mothers saddens and
encourage them at the same time to keep faith and hope alive in the process to
attain certain goals of life and such men practice perfection because they feel as
though when they fall, they would have disappointed a lot of people in their
lives who look up to them. Again men of such nature can be secretive as they don’t
trust easily, and are careful with analysis because they thought every problem
for themselves and made it still. I hope we shall be there for our kids and held them shine.
SOURCE - Anon.
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